dearimportantperson:

Loosely translated, “namaste” means “the spirit in me recognizes spirit in you.” It is, beyond its use as a greeting, an acknowledgement of oneness. It says, “I see you for all you are beneath the flesh, and I welcome your presence.” It isn’t necessary to start greeting all of our peers with “namaste,” but maybe we could all use a little more of this attitude in our lives.

(Source: notasongbird, via nepenthe--pareidolia)

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miketobia:

untitled by Salva López on Flickr.

republicj:

As soon as you honor the present moment, all unhappiness and struggle dissolve, and life begins to flow with joy and ease. When you act out the present-moment awareness, whatever you do becomes imbued with a sense of quality, care, and love - even the most simple action.

Running back into the dark branches of the woods, back through the tangled pine limbs that reach to grab my skin. I am back at the manor, tiptoeing across the coarse wooden floor of the servants’ quarters. For a moment, a thought of Lottie drifts from the darkness. I banish it, turning from her room toward the door impetuous desires find. Footsteps across the threshold, dragging with hesitation. My eyes brush against the room’s shadows, and I find him there, curled on his bed with a sketchpad in his hand and the metallic scent of ink lurking at his fingertips.
Whether I move or not, the next moment I am in his arms, clinging to him as he clings to me. I let go of the thought of Gray, and lose myself in the contrast of Mica’s ember skin against my frozen body. For a teasing instant we hang there, a dying star in an empty void being born again. Then, I remember why I was running, and my tears join my body to melt against him. His arms guide me closer, and soon his own tears fall upon my skin.
“What can give you?” His voice is warm chocolate flowing through the air in restrained tendrils. I want to taste it. But I have tried that before; have reached for his face to find a dark expanse no desire could bridge.
My hand drops in hesitation, and his own smooth palm is there taking mine. Something in my stomach tightens, and I can feel my thawing heart beating against the steady rhythm of his own. I look into the rich loam of his forested eyes, and wonder what has changed.
“You,” he breathes into my ear, the soft sound of the wind through the trees answering my unspoken question, and I know he is right.
I ask him how, but there is no answer that I did not know. In the void I have learned to be alone. In being alone I have learned to love myself. Now he is ready to teach me the language that came before us.
Now he is ready to learn the language that is us.

Part of the patriarchal culture currently found in Western societies is the supposed duality of male nature: there are bad boys, and there are nice guys.  But, what many people find is that most of these “nice guys”, though they may act differently than bad boys, are acting out of the same motivation and desires: to reduce their partners to objects, or ideals, or possessions.  They appear to be acting out of your best interests, but their motivation is really selfish.  This is the profile of the Nice Guy™.  They use being nice to disguise their own selfishness.  As both a former Nice Guy™, and someone who has witnessed people in relationships with Nice Guys™, I thought I would make a little list on how to tell the difference between a Nice Guy™ and a genuinely nice person.

The first thing to remember is that both types of people are just that: people.  Their looks and mannerisms very.  They aren’t going to fit perfectly into a stereotype.  For the most part, their actions are quite similar.  The difference between a Nice Guy™ and a genuinely nice person are their motivations.  The trick is understanding their motivations through their actions.

Nice Guy™

• Often clingly.  May ask you far too frequently where you are, who you are with, what you are doing, etc. out of a supposed regard for your safety.  In reality, the Nice Guy™ wants to know where you are because he wants to keep tabs on you, like any other one of his possessions.
• Easily prone to jealousy.  Doesn’t like you hanging around other people of your preferred gender and age group (or even your friends outside of your preferred gender).  This is because he is afraid of loosing you.
• Will likely be upset when you try to put up healthy boundaries when it comes to personal time, space, etc.
• Will often want to get involved with your family/friends as soon as possible if you have a good relationship with them.  This is because he thinks - subconsciously or not - that if he forges relationships with those close with you it will be harder for you to break things off.  The same goes for the reverse of this: he will likely want you to meet his friends and family for the same reason.
• Will often talk about how important you are to him, how he couldn’t live without you, etc. especially as things get more serious.  He either really believes this, in which case it is because he has become dependent on the ideal of you; or is deliberately using it to manipulate you emotionally.
• Will affirm you/praise you for your physical characteristics and accomplishments.  This is because these are the only things he cares about: things that others will notice and things that he can take advantage of.
• Easily put off by arguments; not inclined to initiate serious conversations.  This is because he views differences between you two as freedom from him he does not want you to have.
• Is not willing for you two to be anything less than he wants you to be.  If you maintain your boundaries, he will hightail it out of your life or seek revenge.
• Will try to make you feel special.
• Will never admit to making mistakes unless you threaten him with something.  He is always right, and even if your threats get him to concede that with words he will maintain that he was right in his own mind.

Nice Person

• Will likely be interested in your activities and friends because they are genuinely interested in you.  A big difference here is that if you choose not to tell a nice person what you are up to, they will accept this as you creating safe and necessary boundaries in your life.
• Are comfortable with you hanging out with other people, because they recognize that you are not a thing to be lost, but a person who they cannot - and don’t want to - control.
• Will respect the boundaries you erect, and will have boundaries of their own.  They realize that relationships can only work if both parties are comfortable being alone.
• Will want to meet those important to you, but will leave the time and place for that up to you.  They will want to introduce you to the people they love, but won’t push you to form relationships with them.
• Care about you, but understand that they can be happy without you.  They want to be happy alongside you, neither party being dependent on the other.
• Will complement you on the things you do well on, and on your looks, but will make it very clear that what they love about you is who you are (in words, but more importantly in actions!)
• Understands how important communication is.  They are comfortable with and value disagreement and debate because they recognize that both parties are separate entities with differing thoughts, emotions, and opinions and will rejoice in those differences.  They may get passionate, but they will never get angry at you for not agreeing with them.
• Because they are not dependent on you, they are able and willing to be whatever you are ready for them to be.
• Realizes that you are special, and will treat you as such.
• Will make mistakes, but will be willing to admit them and strive to fix them.  He will apologize without demanding forgiveness.

That’s all I can think of for now, but I’m sure there are more.  Feel free to reblog and add your own!

Stop caring so much about the way we sound! Sound is the medium of music, but not the purpose. Music is an expression, a feeling.  It is not a noun to love, but a verb through which love is expressed.  So when you spend our class time grueling over every last detail of our sound, while suppressing our interactions with each other, and any display of feeling whatsoever, you are destroying the very purpose of music. No wonder we always get marked down in competition for being so stiff.  You’re taught us how to sound, but are neglecting to create an environment in which we can feel.

Pope John Paul is so hipster…

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(Iambic pentameter and all that jazz)

My strange eyes walk an endless plane of night,

Beleaguered with the grey’s unfriendly kiss,

When chocolate eyes and golden smile steal sight

And stolen sight begs not second glance miss.

Such lissome ingénue should not be found

So captivating to one so inured,

But ears taken captive by dulcet sounds

Pray not for wretched morals to be cured.

Should eyes be cynosures unto my own

Could not my efflorescent cor(e) be matched?

But this Insouciant will not be known

While these two moieties stay unattached.

   And by the other’s side we may not walk

   While ephemeral sight refrains to talk.